Tuesday 28 May 2013

THE SONG BAHARA…THE REASON I MISS FRIENDS...

Lightning pierced the blue sky and painted a vivid illusion of daylight for the Bhubaneswar city this evening. I was sitting at my usual spot, all geared up for a rain specific romantic musical soiree. Ok honestly the lights were out and I only knew one thing to do, listen to songs. Yeah it’s pretty much the same for every girl out there. We just love daydreaming, and add to that a little music and I must say our world is very beautiful out there in our minds…But I am getting off topic. The reason I am writing is because I stumbled upon the son “Bahara” from the movie I Hate Luv Story. And magically it took me back to my carefree days in second year of college. This was the song I kept playing on loop en route to Deras for the first time with my friends. The ride was exactly in such weather sans rain and I was playing it out from a cell phone, sitting behind on a bike. Yes I got some crazy stares from the few people who passed our group but my friends were excited, I was excited and I didn’t give a damn. I was even singing it out loud in sheer happiness. It was such a beautiful time that I experienced with my friends and I realized that I was currently close with just one of them. What exactly had happened? Maybe we changed, maybe the situations. But I am sure that if I still hold such moments close, then at least some of my friends must be doing the same….So here is how I remember my friends …
Bibhu: One friend who giggled with me on the first awkward day of college, making it that much easier to blend into a room full of strangers… The friend who was my first bunking partner, my secret sharer in the last bench of business communication lab, a person who was mad and always made me laugh…
Deb: One friend who was seriously showing off since day1 of college and annoyingly so, who made me believe that hell yes I could be close with a total mad guy, the person who kept proposing to gals and till now keeps proposing me, who nicknamed me Angel and still gave me the book “Angel”…lol…who kept giving me songs, who pestered me to watch HIMYM (thanks fr dat!!)… But most of all he always knew when I was upset and mostly cheered me up..
Prasna: One friend who was obsessed with bikes and would have traded a hot bf for one of those. The friend who brought the crazy fun part out in me and kept punching boys on their noses…The person who although appeared not to give a damn about what people said about her was a total softie in her heart and always confided to me when people hurt her….
Siddhant: One friend who asked about me right in front of me right before an exam…One friend who was always slow to catch up on dirty jokes but was adorable for that…The friend who used to text me about how much he valued friendship, even over love…The one who was always up for a trip in his car and who religiously charged my illegal cell phone…
Sudha: One friend who was taken aback by my first question to her and thought me a total tramp…The friend who taught me how to be serious, how to be independent, how not to be emotional over small things and the person who sneaked me into hostel many times despite the trouble it myt cause her…the person who has never left my side since then…
Kandi: One friend who came in a group of friends but left his own memories… The one who loved teasing me, one who used to put in my place when I showed off, the one who used to tease me about how I spoke Hindi and always told me that I ignored him….
Anubhav: One friend who we always prophesied would make it big in real life…The friend who lost his heart over hopeless love, the one who always smiled no matter what you said about him, the person who has the most soulful collection of music…who made me fill out his slambuk and I was the first girl in that…
Arup: One friend who was always on my side when I teased a particular member of the group and was always my conspirator in teasing the hell out of him..Who debated about ITER ramp shows and matched my thoughts on who scorched it…
Pritam: One friend with whom I have been since school days and frankly I think he’s gonna follow me to my job too unless someone makes him a dancing IAS officer…lol…the first brother I made…my laugh buddy, my secret buddy…who faced the wrath of my uncle but didn’t ditch me but laughed about it the next day…
Sibangi: One friend who is my special bus mate, my crazy friend whom we loved teasing no matter when…my saving grace in a dull bus ride when I lost my earphones…my sweet partner in bus gupshup, my smile generator…the person who always had crushes on most unlikely people…(Edward and sir)…
Dasia: One friend who is MAD, the most stupidest pj maker , the laugh riot in bus or patties shop where we hung out…I do not remember any day whre he was there and I haven’t laughed…the guy who was a nervous wreck and kept telling me I am crazy for not wanting a job in our first campus…
Sikta: One friend who gave me a smile whenever I met her, who was always there to cheer for me, to be happy for me, and who no matter how long we hadn’t met would fit in right into my world and start where we left off…who shared the grief with me when our friend lost his dad…
Monica: One friend who became my friend rather late but has been a rock solid foundation, her notes made me pass, her reminders kept me on my toes, and her unquestioning listening abilities made me pour out my heart to her…she taught me not to xpect, she taught me that I am good as it is…and I still don’t understand her…
I loved the people for these memories they shared with me. I loved them for being in their own ways a part of my college memories which I hold dear to me. I maybe getting sentimental and maybe poking into the ashes here. But the fire was beautiful when it burnt; it gave me warmth and made my days brighter….THANX 


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